Less Whining, Less Fighting: Try This One Simple Shift

One easy parenting strategy that can reduce whining and fighting is surprisingly simple: agree with your child.

When a child says things like, “You never listen to me,” our instinct is often to defend ourselves. But instead of arguing, try agreeing. You can say, “Okay,” or “You’re right.”
Even if it’s not completely true, ask yourself honestly—are there times you don’t listen? Of course there are. We’re human.

If your child says, “I want ice cream instead of potatoes,” you can respond with, “I believe you,” or “Me too.”
If they say, “I don’t want to go,” simply agree.

Agreeing does not mean you’re changing the plan or giving in. It just means you’re letting your child know they’ve been heard.

Children don’t always want explanations or lectures. Most of the time, they just want connection. When we stop trying to convince them and start acknowledging their feelings, the tension drops almost instantly.

This simple shift—believing your child and agreeing with them—can lead to fewer tantrums, fewer arguments, and a calmer relationship between the two of you.

Have a great relationship!

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xoxo,
Megan