Invite them

 One easy way to have a better relationship with your teen is to invite them.


Invite them to:
  • Play a game with the family.
  • Play Pickleball
  • Go on a bike ride
  • Get a treat or some food.
  • Come to the gas station for a drink.
  • Watch a show.
If your teen is like mine sometimes it's hard to get them to do stuff with the rest of the family.  A lot of time it'll be a no from them, but occasionally it'll be a yes.  

They aren't in your home too much longer so make sure to spend time together.  Make it fun too.  Food is always a great way to get them involved.  

You may be surprised what they will do with you if you simply invite them to join you.

Don't make it a guilt trip either. 

REALLY enjoy their company and the time spent together.  

Adios Amigo,
Megan

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